Can you be a good mother?

 A married man should be a mother. Sometimes it is necessary to put off motherhood due to work or financial reasons, but it is better to have children before the age of 30. Children born after the age of 30 have a higher incidence of congenital follies. In addition, raising children also requires physical strength, so childbirth is more suitable for women in their 20s and 30s.

Some people give up having children because they lack the confidence to raise them. This is an erroneous idea. There is no one in the world who has confidence in raising a child before it is born any more than a person who has never dipped in water can have confidence in swimming. Parenting knowledge does not have to be comprehensive. The problem that appears in raising a child process is concerned with the month age of the child, have certain regularity. Mothers of babies under 1 month of age need only know about babies under 1 month of age. By the fourth month, it doesn't matter if you forget all about diseases that occur in newborns less than one month old.

Some people think they are not mature enough to raise a baby. This view is not shared. People can't fully mature, and when they reach near maturity, they can't raise children. However, being a parent and raising a child is an opportunity for life to mature. From the perspective of children, over-confident parents are not good parents. Only those who explore life together with their children and grow up together with them are good parents.

There may also be people who are sick and don't want to be parents. But medicine is changing so fast that, contrary to the old belief, it is not just perfectly healthy people who can become mothers. Patients with chronic nephritis, if urine is protein-only, can produce most of them normally (see 14 pregnancies in sick women). Diabetes is also one of the diseases that used to be considered unsuitable for childbirth. Now it is believed that as long as blood sugar is kept normal, mother and child will be fine. The person that has heredity disease or similar disease in the family, also may be hesitant to become a mother, but need not be too pessimistic, although ill, as long as do not drag others, can live normally, compared with "nothing" come, "born" the choice should be the priority. Getting rid of illness and enjoying motherhood can enrich your life.

Some people want to be mothers, but sometimes they have trouble getting pregnant. The medical term infertility is defined as the inability to conceive after two years of marriage. Want to have a child, but after 1 year still have no signs of pregnancy, should consider on the hospital. The causes of infertility are not solely female-related, so when a doctor visits, it should be done simultaneously with the couple. There are plenty of reasons, though not half as many for men.

The reason that a lot of circumstances woman is barren does not come out, should notice to check bilateral sex life at this moment whether smooth, oviposit and luteal function whether normal, fallopian tube whether unblocked, cervical mucous whether hinder spermatozoon pass and hormonal balance etc. If none of the above is abnormal but not pregnant, the man should be considered abnormal, or there are mental reasons. It is not uncommon for children to become pregnant shortly after adoption because they could not conceive.

Blind use of ovulatory drugs without careful examination should be avoided. Ovulatory agents can sometimes cause multiple births.

The causes of male infertility are often related to poor sperm function or low sperm count. At this point can be treated to increase the number of sperm, and then artificial insemination. Impotence is mostly related to spiritual factors, if the woman can be tolerant and considerate, sooner or later can be cured. But the thing to consider is that a close examination of a problem in one party may not be good for family life. The greater the desire to have children, the greater the mental burden on the defective partner. To keep a secret, a lot has to be done. If it's not clear which side the cause is, and if it's a shared destiny, the two of you can get away from the kids and explore life together.